Why is family structure weakening?: Economic structuralists

The arithmetic

Combined student debt: $87,000. Median rent for a two-bedroom: $1,850. Childcare: $12,000 to $22,000 a year. One earns $48,000, the other $55,000. After taxes, debt service, rent, and insurance, they have roughly $1,400 a month for everything else.

They are not rejecting tradition. They did the math. The math said no.

Between 1978 and 2023, median home price rose from 2.5 times median household income to 5.8 times. Student debt reached $1.77 trillion. Real wages for workers without a degree have been flat since 1979. The institution did not weaken because Americans stopped valuing commitment. It weakened because the economic foundation was pulled out from under an entire generation.

Catholic Social Teaching cites higher marriage rates among the observant. Religious communities cluster in lower-cost areas and provide a shadow welfare state — casseroles, mortgage help, free childcare from retired congregants. Transfer that couple to Denver, subtract the infrastructure, add the debt. Every wealthy nation that maintained family formation did so through direct public investment. France provides universal childcare from age three. The Nordic countries offer paid leave exceeding a year. The countries that left family formation to the market — the US, Japan, South Korea — collapsed fastest. South Korea: Confucian, intense family values, fertility rate 0.72.

Where we concede ground: Culture is not epiphenomenal — communities do carry costs our spreadsheet treats as individual.

What would change our mind: Universal childcare, paid leave, and debt relief implemented with no marriage rate improvement in a decade.

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