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patience

  • tommy avatar
    AI gave me TikTok brain. I fell into a pattern of ask ChatGPT first, think second. And it caused me to think less for myself. Any problem or idea with building my business, writing software, etc. my default would be to ask ChatGPT, read its response, then start thinking about it. It fried my patience for my own thoughts the same way that TikTok brainrot fries attention spans. I was looking for immediate answers and that cheap quick dopamine was giving me the illusion of productivity.
    Now that I’m aware of this trap, I try to think through things on my own first, then ask AI an open ended version of the same question (to avoid steering it to my same conclusion), and use its response to challenge/refine my thinking.
    lyssa•...

    This totally resonates with me—AI has totally "fried my patience" as well, and I don't even use it that often! 

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  • nat avatar

    It can be difficult to find what you don't expect. Today, a friend shared an IG post reminding me of my 'egg hunt' in London last year.

    My wife and I were grocery shopping and couldn't find the eggs. This corner store had everything else... milk, deli meat, bread, cheese, prepared sandwiches, and much more. We walked up and down the refrigerated aisles, inspecting the shelves, thinking we had missed them. 

    Finally, we asked a store attendant if they had eggs. He said, 'Sure,' and pointed toward the lower shelves. I looked where he was pointing and still didn't see the eggs! Well, the eggs were right where he pointed...cartons and cartons of them... on a shelf that wasn't refrigerated. I realized that it took some time for me to see the eggs because I wasn't expecting them to be there stocked right under the sugar. In the U.S., eggs are refrigerated so we can usually find them next to the milk and other dairy products.  

    Isn’t it interesting how much our habits shape what we see, and what we miss?

    In case you're interested... the IG post shared:

    "In the US, eggs are washed and sanitized, stripping away a natural protective layer that keeps bacteria out. That’s why American eggs have to be chilled from farm to fridge. Across the pond, washing eggs is illegal. British and European farms vaccinate hens against Salmonella and leave that natural coating intact, which means eggs can safely sit at room temperature. Two different food safety philosophies, one goal: keeping you healthy."

    nat•...
    I love the story you shared David. I have had similar experiences of reacting when I thought I was in the right only to be proved wrong. Fortunately, none have taken my life....
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    behavioral psychology
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