Infinite players understand the inescapable likelihood of evil. They therefore do not attempt to eliminate evil in others, for to do so is the very impulse of evil itself, and therefore a contradiction. They only attempt paradoxically to recognize in themselves the evil that takes the form of attempting to eliminate evil elsewhere.
- James P Carse, Finite and Infinite Games
In a smaller way, this speaks to part of the spirit of not enforcing a certain kind authenticity in relateful sessions. And for taking full responsibility for your experience.