Wow, I just realized that my mom is the only person in my life who sometimes yells at me. It’s such a relief to recognize that no one else in my life does that.

also Stephanie comments on how I'm harder on Jack than Ciça, so it's interesting to see some of the roots of this developing, and so early

Have spoken to so many family members about how their votes have affected my wellbeing and who I am.  They won't demonize a family member.... most of the time

I think my family is good at flight. We were kind of taught to be insular in our beliefs. Shunning isn't unusual. I've accepted I won't be invited to the party.