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  • nithya avatar

    More on Indian Marriages. I’m wondering if any of you have insights on how Indian Marriages can be more meaningful.

    I find that they are usually very formulaic with few opportunities for genuine connection and interaction. It seems to be mostly about completing certain prescribed rituals.

    I’m sure there are exceptions to this norm, however most weddings I have attended have been mostly about dressing up, getting photos taken, eating 🍽️, and some joking / teasing.

    If I had to create something different it would include the following:

    1. The bride and groom share their hopes and dreams and fears and aspirations.
    2. There is an occasion to get to know a little bit about the main members of both sides of the family.
    3. An opportunity for people to share some of their talents and gifts.
    4. Occasion for blessing the couple with words / poems / short plays and other creative ways.
    5. Those who wish to can share their most important relationship wisdom / anecdotes / Learnings.
    6. Less money spent on the fancy aspects of the wedding and more on creating an atmosphere that is welcoming and puts people at easy.
    7. Maybe a quiz / trivia about the couple and the respective families.

    I know this is me imposing my value system on what is a well established tradition. However I felt like sharing my reflections and I welcome your insights.

    Thanks.

    jordanSAinreimagining social media with nithya shanti•...
    These seem very reasonable! (with the exception of "immediately expelled" — although this is typical of any new boundary; we almost always feel we have to make enforcement more harsh than necessary so the boundary isn’t crossed)....
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    Getting tired. I’m finding I’m getting more tribal and emotional as I’m getting more tired. I think I’m tired both from listening and something about using the platform. A lot of thinking.

    jordanSA•...

    Sidenote: The image for this post is one of my favorites.

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  • blake avatar

    ZOO Trip! . We’ll be picked up tomorrow morning at 8:35am at:

    Cineplex Southbank - Bus Stop - 167 Grey St

    Agenda

    08:30 DEPART BRISBANE HOTEL/TRANSIT CENTRE

    ARRIVE AUSTRALIA ZOO
    Please note that arrival times may be changed due to traffic congestion or traffic conditions.

    13:15 AUSTRALIA ZOO WILDLIFE WARRIORS
    Join snakes, free-flight birds and crocs LIVE in the world-famous Crocoseum. Get your adrenalin pumping as you see a crocodile launch a strike from the water’s edge.

    TIGER TEMPLE
    Home to Australia Zoo’s majestic Sumatran and Bengal tigers, the Tiger Temple provides an amazing opportunity for you to get up-close with these magnificent big cats and witness their power.

    AFRICA
    You can see the only multi species exhibit in Queensland.

    CRIKEY! THERE’S LOADS TO DO
    Plan your day around educational presentations and animal encounters galore as zoo keepers walk around the park with the animals.

    16:00 DEPART AUSTRALIA ZOO

    17:00 RETURN BRISBANE HOTEL

    isaac_uptrustinZoo Trip•...

    Such a good time :) I wanted to share a few pictures here, but in keeping with the group privacy I’d rather not upload them to an external service.

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  • jordan avatar

    What are your sci-fi TV show recommendations? Some i loved that jump to mind:

    • The Expanse
    • Most of the Marvel stuff like Loki, What If?
    • Rick and Morty
    • Legends of Tomorrow Etc
    jordanSA•...

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