Indian Marriages

I was at a family wedding yesterday and so much happens which at times is not necessary that we forget the austerity of the sacred ceremony like marriage.In Hindu marriages a fire is lit up around which the bride and the groom take circles,while the holy man receives sacred hymes which ties them together in Holy matrimony.During my growing up years I was a super inquisitive girl wanting to know the why’s.During once such wedding I had attended as a small child I saw my entire family returning back to the same spot where the Pheras(Holy matrimonial rounds) had taken place just sometime back.Now with my Aunt gone to her husband’s house it was empty.I asked my mom-mumma why have we come back here,to which she replace ed that we need to sit here for sometime as I should not be left empty.This logic stayed with me,and I would impart this knowledge.Today during the wee hours of the morning I again was about to give the same logic but as I opened my mouth to give the answer which has come from Mumma My Masters spoke through me-to make a wedding to be culminated successfully -THE FIVE ELMENTS OF NATURE COME TOGETHER AND BLESS THE ENTIRE CEREMONY THAT IS HOW IT IS CULMINATED SMOOTHLY AND NOW WE MUST THANK ALL THESE ENERGIES AND ASK THEM TO TAKE THEIR RIGHTFUL PLACE BEFORE LEAVING THE MANDAP.This explanation was well received by all who had to receive this knowledge and it has brought unimaginable kind of peace to the inquisitiveness in me.