Community living

I'm in the process of building a neighborhood community in Asheville. It will be the first time I've lived with so many people - likely 20-30 - and had some choice over the members. Something I'm contemplating is: what sort of personality traits and communication skills should I sort for? I'd love to hear y'all's thoughts. What traits make someone good to live with in community?

Here are some my group has come up with thus far:

• Respectful / considerate
  - of others’ space
• Thoughtful and flexible
  - Take in other views, consider others’ ideas, negotiate
• Self-aware 
  - Admit when you’re wrong
• Chill 
  / Resilient
  - Take things in stride, sense of humor, patient
• Brave
  - Lean into honesty and difficult conversations
• Contributory
  - Show up with time, money, and attention