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    Cities and Ambition. I recently reread this Paul Graham essay [ https://www.paulgraham.com/cities.html ]. It’s about what messages individual places send their inhabitants vis-a-vis which ambitions are good. It mentions Berkeley (where I live) as a place that wants people to live comfortably/well, which seems right. So I’m curious: what city do you live in and what does its vibe want you to do?

    https://www.paulgraham.com/cities.html
    jordanSA•...
    this seems true—even the ancient locals like myself are constantly making new friends. I’ve also heard that dating here is really fun for that reason—you never lose options; but can be frustrating for some people because people they like move...
    social dynamics
    community and relationships
    dating culture
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