Yesterday I was in a circle where someone said something like, Okay, Iām learning that what I shared (10 minutes ago or something) created more distance and division in the group, and thatās not what I want.
I could totally see where they were coming from, with the immediate reactions they got. Meanwhile, looking around, it really looked to me like we were much closer as a group than weād been before that share and the resulting reactions and etc. It reminded me that sometimes it takes patience to see the impacts weāre having on each other, and if we judge too quickly (as I know Iāve done countless times in my life), weāll miss out on the beauty we help create when we bring truth and love.
Forming Storming Norming Performingāitās kinda happening a little bit all the time fractally or something. I imagine thereās a better description of it than that, but thatās one way of pointing to what I mean.