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Shadows of personal growth culture: weaponized toolkits

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jordanSA·...
communication · 9.5

I think everyone here has probably experienced weaponized NVC. What are some of the other things you see weaponized that annoy you?

eg:

  • Weaponized Commitment to connection: there are bunch of versions of this: i can’t heal myself without you, my feelings are dependent on your reaction (classic codependency) you must stay in the connection and respond to my inquiry or else you’re not deep, spiritual, or committed enough, etc

  • weaponized owning your experience

Of course most of the time if you simply use principles, steps, and tools for yourself only you dont run into these issues; but even then people are sneaky and manipulative (often without even realizing it themselves!)

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