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Daily Alchemy: a question to think on together
“When a beloved character gets recast or retired, what are we actually grieving: the story, or something we found in ourselves through them?”
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- onIs the impulse to fix already included in wholeness, or does noticing it just relocate the split one level up?by
I think more the world/society. I believe the world is perfect as it is in some deep spiritual sense; I think "the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand" and the Tao Te Ching's "Do you think you can take over the universe and improve it? I do not believe it can be done.... I’m a huge believer in letting a person do what they want in a relationship. Let me tell you why.
One thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of people spend more time trying to manage their partner’s behavior than evaluating their character. They think if they’re strict enough, watch closely enough, set enough rules, make enough demands, check enough phones, monitor enough...