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This is an interesting topic — one I’ve wrestled with for many years. Over time, I’ve learned something important: I can’t change the world’s problems, and the world isn’t obligated to care about me.... - Godless Guru...
Good to see that you overcame the false notion that exemplifying transparency and dedication doesn’t automatically cause others to follow. That some or most others follow is to be desired, but still not realistic, for we really only see desirable attributes in others and... - TheLion...
Honestly it all depends on, if you're both willing to suffer for each other to gain knowledge and understanding of each other. To have a future of understanding, as a team who is truly the one that you can love.... - KC2sunshine...
I really hate to say it, but ever since Trump was elected in 2016, i've had to take the fight and enrage options, but only because I had no other choices. have a strained relationship with my Father-in-Law at best when it comes to this topic.... - lyssa...
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Today I feel good - or better at least. I still see the world the same way. I am afraid you might not like it, but I can't just change my belief at will. Can anybody get to choose what they believe? Anyway, real truth and real love are not incompatible.... "people are sacred, conversations are worship" Love this! I wonder: your desire to have conversations with specific people without others butting in makes sense to me.... I'm brought to tears. I'm grateful to be us. whenever i find myself flinching from the impact, thinking of you helps me come back to feel it, stay with it. I'm asking myself why do i want to feel the impact? Why do I want to stay present with the suffering?... - Arun...
Reading this brings me to a memory of relateful camp where we did this experiment in a way, in real time. We spoke for each other, we spoke for ourselves as the other. What transpired was electric, psychedelic, and intimate. Oh hell yes.... I had a teacher who imparted to me this (paraphrased) wisdom: If you're feeling something you don't want to feel, try to shift your attention from it, often you can. But be honest when you can't, and in those situations you have to go into it.... I love and admire the turnaround you're making that "I've lost trust in MYSELF" — I think this is key to what trust really is; and that having a relationship of trust with reality is really great when properly understood—I come in and out of remembering that :) so it's really...