ontology
- onWe have the option to see everything in your life as collaborative; we are scared to say this because we don't want to victim-blame but we're also scared of the possibilities and transcendence that opens upby
I agree this is rich and murky territory! Choice and agency are complex and my writing doesn't address this. But I think you're mistaking the nuance of my claim by applying an ontology about things pre-existing that I am not implying, and I believe this is probably the crux of...