I think it will be used any time we’re noticing that we’re changing states and the state we’re changing to is feeling pressure to not change because it will violate a codependency agreement.
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Daily Alchemy: a question to think on together
“When a big life change hits, like retirement or illness, how much should a relationship have to reinvent itself to survive?”
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My husband and I have been in our relationship for nearly 21 years now, only 3 of which have been as an actual married couple and that mostly because I have pushed for it from the start I believe.... I've only seen it a little when my wife watches and asks me to name some of the relational dynamics I'm seeing :)
I think the spirit of what you're writing about is also where I come from, but I happen to have chosen monogamy with my always-freedom-TO. I understand that putting a boundary around a thing implies and defines the existence of its opposite, so in this sense it's totally true...