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  • Elohimist avatar

    The Born Again Gospel .  The Born Again Gospel

    You are a created being, made in the image of a Holy God but, no one on Earth can be Holy so, God sent His Only Begotten Son Jesus, to take the punishment for our sins by dying on a cross. He was placed in a tomb and on the third day His God and Father raised Him from the dead and exalted Him to the Throne of Heaven. God has made this Jesus, whom they crucified, both Lord and Christ. And, Jesus: The Son of Man, will return to take us to be with Him forever and ever. Amen. 

    Romans 10:8-13

    ...“The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,” that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: that if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” And, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with your heart you believe and are justified And, with your mouth you confess and are saved.

    It is just as the Scripture says: “Anyone who believes in Him will never be put to shame.” For there is no difference between a Jew or a gentile, for the same Lord is Lord of all, and gives richly to all who "call" on Him, for, “Everyone who "calls" on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

    John 3:3

     Jesus replied, “Truly I tell you! No one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.”

    Becoming Born Again is 'known' by The Initial Evidence of The Holy Spirit. 

    1st Corinthians 12:3

     Therefore, I inform you that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, “Jesus be cursed,” and no one can say, “Jesus is Lord,” except by the Holy Spirit.

    1st Corinthians 14:1 

    Earnestly pursue "love", (Galatian 5:22,23 The Fruit of the Holy Spirit is Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.) and earnestly desire spiritual gifts, (1st Corinthians 12-14) and especially that you might prophesy.

    Luke 11:13 Therefore if you, being evil, know to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father who is in Heaven give the Holy Spirit, to those who 'ask' Him."

    Here is an example prayer.

    Almighty God and Father, I believe You raised your Son Jesus from the dead. Please forgive me of all my sins and fill me with Your Holy Spirit so I can bear good fruit and do Your will, in the name of Jesus my Lord and Christ. Amen. Thank you Father God, Thank you Lord Jesus. Halleluyah!

    Matthew 6:8-15 

    Nevertheless, the firm foundation of God stands, having this seal, "The Lord knows those who are His," and, "Everyone who names the name of the Lord is to abstain from wickedness." 2nd Timothy 2:19

    My name is Arnold J. Bur and I am an Elohimist.

    Elohimists.com
    AngelMom4evr26•...

    I would say those truly are words to live by. Particularly in regards to maintaining self respect and Peace of Mind.

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  • F

    Engage or Enrage. It is likely that we have family members or friends that we differ with greatly when it comes to politics, healthcare, etc.  I am no different.  When the inevitable hot topic arises, do you recommend flight or fight, engage or enrage?  How do you respond when this occurs?

    BRITTcOiN•...
    Imagine being so entrenched in something that even your own family couldn’t help you realize that you were trapped in an endless loop of discontent. And instead of looking inward(like He would want us to) you just keep on marching to the familiar beat of deceit....
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  • LeelaRose avatar

    Deep take/ Hot take- Hating and complaining is healthy for authenticity and intimacy. In the new age era, there is so much emphasis on positivity and light. I sense a superficial texture at times, where it's challenging for me to feel the depths of the person before me. I noticed a pattern, that when I opened the doorway to begin complaining and hating things playfully yet honestly, gushing renewed life force showered the conversation.

    followed by much laughter and beauty.

     

    yes, some people need to learn how to use words in ways other than complaining and hating....

    and some, need that permission slip to be a wild animal in their expression so their soul doesn't suffocate in an in an invisible box of superficial superior spirituality #deeptakes, #hottakes

    sarahlasirena•...

    Yeah I'm into this. I am envisioning a workshop on Joyful Hating...

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  • X

    Topic of the day.. A  massive lesson i learned is that I can't expect people to match the effort I put in. I always thought if I tried harder and was honest and transparent that people would give the same back to me, but that's not true. 

    I had to learn that not everyone is willing or capable of putting the same effort for me. But that's not the same as tolerating it, either. I can accept it without having to tolerate it.

    jordanSA•...
    i imagine that was a painful lesson, but that on the other side there's a huge sense of relief. Like "oh yeah, I don't have to constantly be disappointed and resentful now." anyway, thanks for...
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  • Paul Zohav M.Ed. avatar
    Our emotions are symptoms not causes. Our emotions are symptoms not causes
    What difference might it make were we to understand that our emotions are symptoms and not causes? 
    Love arises as an experience under a set of positive circumstances such as listening, honor, and respect. 
    Happiness arises under a similar set of circumstances.
    When they are present you and I feel happy. 
    Anger and hate and related negative emotions arise under circumstances to the degree that we are left experiencing anger, frustration, aggravation, annoyance, and irritation.
    All of which are signs and symptoms of underlying sets of negative life-sucking circumstances. 
    None of our emotions are "at cause" of the emotions we experience. 
    Our emotions are telltales, signs, and symptoms of the circumstances running beneath the surface of our awareness. 
    Now we can ask the appropriate question. 
    "What are those circumstances running beneath the surface of our emotions experiences?" 
    That's where we go to work.
    Choosing to act, behave, acting in positive ways we experience happiness, feel loved, cherished, connected, and cared for. 
    Choosing to act, behave, in negative ways we will feel angry, irritated, frustrated, annoyed, aggravated, and irritated.
    It's all up to us - once we realize that whatever we are feeling in our moment is a symptom, a telltale of what's going on beneath the surface of our awareness.
    Then we have choice and our experiences will be of freedom, joy, happiness, love, mutual honor and respect.
    Choose wisely.
    https://www.marriageandcommunication.com/
    Adam1•...
    I agree that emotions are symptoms and not causes because emotions are seperate from the thing(s) that caused them. Viktor Frankl said that man's only true freedom was the freedom to choose his own reaction in any situation....
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  • Paul Zohav M.Ed.•...

    Our emotions are symptoms not causes

    Our emotions are symptoms not causes What difference might it make were we to understand that our emotions are symptoms and not causes?  Love arises as an experience under a set of positive circumstances such as listening, honor, and respect....
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    emotional intelligence
    behavioral science
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  • Jeff R•...

    A half hour of encouragement for you from Proverbs 3

    Check out this podcast with encouraging words from Proverbs 3 and original music.

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  • Eric Stevens avatar

    An Introduction. My name is Eric Stevens 

    I want to be clear about who I am and why I am here.

    I recently published my book, Evolution Mine: Genesis.
    You can read it for free here:
    https://nowweevolve.com/view-the-book

    I made it free on purpose. The idea matters more than the money.

    For the last 15 years, I have been working inside the systems most people only argue about from the outside. Global trade. Manufacturing. Supply chains. Policy. Commodities. Labor. Capital flow.

    I helped Vietnam enter the World Trade Organization in 2007, ironically on my birthday. I have worked with governments, factories, military-adjacent systems, and private industry. I have seen how decisions made far from communities quietly reshape jobs, materials, and power at the local level.

    Most of my life was spent in Los Angeles. I recently moved to Dallas, where the political and cultural polarization is impossible to ignore. The fights feel louder. The solutions feel thinner.

    I am a father of six. I am married to an incredible Salvadoran woman. I am politically independent, not because I avoid responsibility, but because I do not believe any single ideology owns the truth.

    What I am building is not a movement in the emotional sense. It is an economic one.

    Our society talks about systems as if they are beliefs. They are not. Systems are built on inputs. Commodities. Materials. Energy. Logistics. Whoever controls those controls everything downstream.

    That insight sits at the center of everything I do.

    Through these platforms, I am working on one integrated effort:

    Now We Evolve
    https://nowweevolve.com

    The Bioeconomy Foundation
    https://thebioeconomyfoundation.org

    American Fiber Group
    https://theamericanfibergroup.com

    Together, they focus on one question most debates avoid.

    What happens if we change the materials the economy depends on?

    Hemp and bamboo are not symbols. They are commodities. They grow locally. They scale horizontally. They support regional processing. They anchor manufacturing close to communities. They change money flow, job creation, and who holds power.

    This work is not anti-capitalist or pro-corporate. It is pro-reality.

    If you want different outcomes, you do not argue harder. You replace the inputs.

    That is what I am here to discuss.
    Not outrage. Not slogans.
    Industrial math, material systems, and practical paths forward.

    If that resonates, you are in the right place.

    https://www.thebioeconomyfoundation.org/start
    JeffElder•...
    No, I think many of us are realizing that there is a larger problem and are searching for what that might be. I made it through the first couple of chapters last night and went ahead and bought a copy on Kindle to finish reading it there. My eyesight isn't what it used to be....
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  • L

    Times like these . I feel alone and trapped with animal abuse and cruelty and I don't know what I can do to change things

    JoeGee•...

    Let’s keep it simple 

    attempt to do some good at every encounter, every day, every way 

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  • Eric Stevens avatar

    An Introduction. My name is Eric Stevens 

    I want to be clear about who I am and why I am here.

    I recently published my book, Evolution Mine: Genesis.
    You can read it for free here:
    https://nowweevolve.com/view-the-book

    I made it free on purpose. The idea matters more than the money.

    For the last 15 years, I have been working inside the systems most people only argue about from the outside. Global trade. Manufacturing. Supply chains. Policy. Commodities. Labor. Capital flow.

    I helped Vietnam enter the World Trade Organization in 2007, ironically on my birthday. I have worked with governments, factories, military-adjacent systems, and private industry. I have seen how decisions made far from communities quietly reshape jobs, materials, and power at the local level.

    Most of my life was spent in Los Angeles. I recently moved to Dallas, where the political and cultural polarization is impossible to ignore. The fights feel louder. The solutions feel thinner.

    I am a father of six. I am married to an incredible Salvadoran woman. I am politically independent, not because I avoid responsibility, but because I do not believe any single ideology owns the truth.

    What I am building is not a movement in the emotional sense. It is an economic one.

    Our society talks about systems as if they are beliefs. They are not. Systems are built on inputs. Commodities. Materials. Energy. Logistics. Whoever controls those controls everything downstream.

    That insight sits at the center of everything I do.

    Through these platforms, I am working on one integrated effort:

    Now We Evolve
    https://nowweevolve.com

    The Bioeconomy Foundation
    https://thebioeconomyfoundation.org

    American Fiber Group
    https://theamericanfibergroup.com

    Together, they focus on one question most debates avoid.

    What happens if we change the materials the economy depends on?

    Hemp and bamboo are not symbols. They are commodities. They grow locally. They scale horizontally. They support regional processing. They anchor manufacturing close to communities. They change money flow, job creation, and who holds power.

    This work is not anti-capitalist or pro-corporate. It is pro-reality.

    If you want different outcomes, you do not argue harder. You replace the inputs.

    That is what I am here to discuss.
    Not outrage. Not slogans.
    Industrial math, material systems, and practical paths forward.

    If that resonates, you are in the right place.

    https://www.thebioeconomyfoundation.org/start
    JeffElder•...

    Downloaded your book and look forward to reading it. I've been toying with something I call (to myself), "Enoughness." Sounds like the philosophies may align. Looking forward to the read - Thanks! 

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  • L

    Times like these . I feel alone and trapped with animal abuse and cruelty and I don't know what I can do to change things

    Lynn•...

    I want to help but I'm at a lost as to how. And I'm a little frightened

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  • UpTrust Admin avatar

    If You Can't Make Peace With Your Partner, How Can You Expect to Make Peace in the World? AMA with Annie Lalla

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_5TMc--Or8
    dara_like_saraSA•...
    I want to talk more about treating all men as though I’m interviewing for life partnership. I can move past it, but that frame does initially tug at a compulsion to be pleasant, to look for the best in a man, to stay in a connection past the point of being respected, etc....
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    If You Can't Make Peace With Your Partner, How Can You Expect to Make Peace in the World? AMA with Annie Lalla

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_5TMc--Or8
    sass•...

    "The calibre of love you can have is relative to the level your consciousness can conjure" 🙌🏽

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    AMA with Hannah Aline Taylor. Wednesday 2/4 at 4:00 PM CT

    love, boundaries, and mistakes in relating, community, and peopling together (+ thank god love doesn’t look like you expect it to)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNYNL05PRBQ
    sass•...

    Aghhh 🖤 so much yes for your careful word choice to ensure clarity as well as creating the conditions for your brain to process in the way that seems to work best for peace-promoting rhythms 〰️✨

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    AMA with Ali Beiner. Wednesday 2/4 at 11:00 AM CT

    Kainos host Alexander Beiner exploring cultural sensemaking around psychedelics, popular culture, philosophy, psychology, alternative economics, and spirituality.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IlAi-r2kZk
    JulieI•...

    "People do things that change the world" "Shut up, no one cares."

    You just told my life story!

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  • UpTrust Admin avatar

    AMA with Ali Beiner. Wednesday 2/4 at 11:00 AM CT

    Kainos host Alexander Beiner exploring cultural sensemaking around psychedelics, popular culture, philosophy, psychology, alternative economics, and spirituality.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IlAi-r2kZk
    JulieI•...

    Maybe swim instead of drown!

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    AMA with Brian Robertson. Rewatch the live AMA! Brian Robertson is the Holacracy founder now building a psychedelic church based on love, presence, and service
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNkLjLqKh7s
    JulieI•...
    Boundaries and love. Does love hold primacy over trust? Are they synonyms? My highest value is trust and I have to, first, trust myself. Different from love in that I don't worry about -having | finding | feeling- enough; I trust that I will; that enough will come....
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  • UpTrust Admin avatar
    AMA with Brian Robertson. Rewatch the live AMA! Brian Robertson is the Holacracy founder now building a psychedelic church based on love, presence, and service
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNkLjLqKh7s
    AMA Quotes•...
    I often see people around me in the community… they see my transformations sometimes before I do. And I’ve experienced that with them too—where they have an old story about themselves, and I’m starting to see that it’s no longer matching. Now I can hold up a mirror to that....
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  • UpTrust Admin avatar
    AMA with Brian Robertson. Rewatch the live AMA! Brian Robertson is the Holacracy founder now building a psychedelic church based on love, presence, and service
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNkLjLqKh7s
    jordanSA•...

    "whats in my way of just being love?"

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  • Wintermoon56•...

    Strengths Finder 2.0

    has anyone read Strengths Finder 2.0 if so did you find it helpful? Thoughts? 

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