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Just as it is true that instead of ignoring issues that are political or religious, we need to learn how to address issues that are political or religious, if you find a comment that is, to you, hateful, you should try to think of how to phrase the issue in such a way that it... Recipe for a thriving loving marriage
For an extraordinary and nourishing marriage you will need the following ingredients: 2 Individuals 1 Bonding ritual 1 Communication skills 1 Relationship support skills Step one: Stir two individuals together until they begin to form an Us.... - JulieI...
But when you are teaching or trying to construct better ways of doing something... clear understanding is important. And, you are not perceiving or wondering about my intention at all.... - Eric Stevens...
Hit them with calm logic and data. If that does not work, leave the battlefield in the sake of harmony.
tldr; Perform a miracle. If the context is a live demo like a podcast, I think the gold standard is to set up a situation that seems impossible to a newbie that the master "miraculously" resolves.... 3) One of the things I do over and over again in leadership is stop people before they "push themselves" into vulnerability. Often they, or the group, will express this idea that they should go into something "deep" and I'll basically interrupt and say something like "Oh wait, I... What was the deliberation like with the jury? Were there vehement arguments? Were there weird politics? Did you relatefulness training make it easier or harder or something else?
- onWhat are some of your uncertainties? Experiences of failure (that maybe you still haven't turned into learnings yet?) Obvious realizations?by
This makes a lot of sense, thanks Nithya. I'm especially trying to sink into what you've described as going the one level deeper, softening the resistance to resistance.... PSA on using ChatGPT to edit writing- We’ve probably all read text that was obviously written by AI. If you’re using AI to edit writing- pro tip: rather than have the tool write anything for you, instead ask it to ask you questions, suggest what you’ve missed in your writing,... - Julia H...
Creative thinking vs winning an argument
Creative thinking needs to be taught and valued as highly as smart thinking, right thinking, and ethical thinking. I wonder if we've been trained - consciously and unconsciously - to converse in formats that can be intimidating and arguable ...... I hope I have grown a lot as a result, especially in my willingness and ability to be more full of care about how I respond and whether to respond at all. For me reading your response, a gentle tone of care, humility, and gentle openness comes through.... - onUpTrust is both destroying my interest in other social media platforms and improving the way I interact with them.by
yeah this feels important; my guess is there's an awkward adjustment time as we unlearn old bad habits; eventually we'll train ourselves to be able to pump out responses like we would if we were on the phone. I'm still working on this...... Read the full post I love it how it’s very actionable and specific. So much easier to show the value people will receive, what they can apply it to, why their lives will be better, (and also therefore sell), while ironically being more universal, than "intro to relateful... - xander...
Agreed, he’s confident and polished, and skillful in his dodges of questions
- annabeth...
How to hold healthy boundaries with people we love but deeply disagree with
I have decided not to travel to attend a dear friend’s wedding because it’s happening less than a week before the election, and my friend very publicly brings their political opinions in ways I disagree with, ways that play into unhealthy and potentially dangerous interpersonal... - annabeth...
I asked ChatGPT "What skills are Pete Buttigieg using that help people at orange and red hear him without pissing off green?"
And here’s ChatGPT’s answer: Pete Buttigieg uses several key communication skills that help him connect with individuals at the red, orange, and green levels of development without alienating any group.... This seems like great practice for mature relating of any kind!
You being charismatic, can easily set a frame and my guess is people mostly step right into it. I imagine you have some attention on that. Yes! I was just talking about this with a Level Upper....