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Perhaps something in the direction of perceived emotional security/reliability or availability of support? The metrics they're using make connection seem like something that only exists in the moment of interaction, and that comes with no strings attached, no expectations etc.... Transcript from Hannah Taylor AMA: Influence Is Having a Great Time Right Now
A live recorded conversation on UpTrust between Jordan Myska Allen and Hannah Aline Taylor. ---- On Saying "I Love You" [00:00:00] Hannah: Can we agree on reality? Oh — hi! Jordan: So happy that we're live here with you. I love you, so that's enough for me to be super happy.... Beyond Inner Work: Relational Awareness and the Practice of Relateful Personal development trains inner awareness. Relateful trains relational awareness.
Beyond Inner Work: Relational Awareness and the Practice of Relateful Personal development trains inner awareness. Relateful trains relational awareness.... so your opinion needs to be proved to that person and if you have to do it within violence. it doesn't change their opinion it just makes them fear you. To an act revenge.... So this is the kind of negativity I'll call negativity. A negative interaction for me is one that continually references what is missing or wrong, seeking or finding holes in the connection/cohesion/argument/understanding and expanding on where we don't agree rather than tracking... Dangerous territory here, but... Hannah, you seem quite committed to being right or, perhaps better language, to not entertaining approaches I have suggested in this exchange.... I would offer that mindfulness of communications as a see-saw (intention <-> Perception) restores some control and reapportions responsibility for change and balance more reasonably.... Thank you for being appreciative. I sometimes think that we are much to prepared for any question, or request that we question/examine something, is perceived as (a prelude to) an attack rather than a (perhaps older) employment as an invitation to dialogue.... One thing I notice about Circling, if person A offers person B something, person A is (at least culturally) more likely to ask, "What's underneath it for you?", as if they're asking, "What's this cocaine cut with?" It's rarely believed in Circling if the underneath isn't... Relatefulness vs Circling
I've been discovering distinctions and felt-senses of Relatefulness that seem to differ from how I know Circling. My short catch phrase is: "If meditation is the art of being, and Circling is the art of being-with, then Relatefulness is the art of being-human-with." I like this,... Here are three oldies but goodies: "Stop thinking." I notice i'm thinking and i simply stop and experience as rawly as possible. Similar to having a focused gaze and unfocusing my eyes, I notice my thoughts are focused and I unfocus them.... Am very curious bout the bias towards understanding. It feels good to understand - like solving a puzzle or winning something? And does it bring us closer? Feeling seen... comes to mind, being understood....