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Daily Alchemy: a question to think on together

Jul 21

“When does taking care of yourself also end up taking care of the people around you, and when does it pull you away from them?”

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  • jordan avatar
    jordanSA·...

    What well-being practices do you do?

    Will you share them? Maybe you want to teach them to us, or give us the best tips, or pose some questions? Are there any that are so habitual you don't even notice them as "practices" anymore?...
    mental-health
    mindfulness
    self-care
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  • Coach Dennis avatar
    Coach Dennis·...

    Just a check in

    What’s one area of your life where you’re trying to be strong, but you’re tired?

    mental-health
    personal-reflection
    self-care
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    Shalara·...

    Today, I choose myself.

    mental-health
    personal-reflection
    motivation
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  • ↳onHow to do the basics when your life feels like a dumpster fire?by
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    jordanSA·...
    I think even more valuable in the coping, if you can manage to get yourself to do it, is actually detailing a very dirty messy car. Watching is good, but the more physically grounding, the better....
    mental-health
    self-care
    automotive-maintenance
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  • ↳onAre We Ever Awake/Free/Thriving Enough To Not Practice?by
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    nat·...
    I’ve been thinking about this over the last several weeks. I have noticed that I too am terrible at sustaining any practice if I’m trying to achieve a desired state/stage and think it will get me something later....
    personal-development
    psychology
    mindfulness
  • ↳onMusings: The World Is Overstilumatedby
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    annabeth·...
    I love this exploration. I've spent two separate years in my life having a Sabbath day for myself. Mine was always Fridays. All of my electronics had to be powered off and put out of sight....
    personal-development
    mindfulness
    self-care
  • ↳onThe price of alignment is grief 💔by
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    Florence·...
    Jordan, I am currently wrestling with waves of grief as I walk through a shadow course I’m doing. Your post couldn’t have come at a better time for me. I love what you’ve written here and as I far as I can feel - my grief has a warm feeling to it....
    self-care
    grief-and-loss
    emotional-balance
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  • ↳onOnly looking at roadblocks is self-defeatingbyXXuramitra PPARK
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    CoachWebb13·...

    So now it comes to this - what do you control? The answer is your choices, your, time, thoughts, attitude, boundaries and self care. Best wishes 

    personal-development
    mental-health
    self-care
  • ↳onThe Open Question April 1: How do you decide what to trust?by
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    Standup55·...
    care

    Not usually i try to stay consistant so its a failsafe

    self-care
    consistency
    personal-habits
  • ↳onThe Open Question May 13: Should UpTrust have a sabbath?by
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    CoachWebb13·...
    I personally like the "day off" idea. May I suggest a siesta as the terminology. If you listen to most of the successful influencers even they take time off. Think of it as a perfect time to connect IRL even if it's just a phone call....
    social-media
    self-care
    work-life-balance
    3
  • ↳onThe open question Aug 12: How do you make friends?by
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    jordan avatar
    jordanSA·...
    I also make it clear to people that I don't have a lot of expectations for them to be any different than they already are. I can manage how close I want to be to them based on my own standards. Both of these seem absolutely critical, and very difficult for a ton of people....
    emotional-intelligence
    self-care
    interpersonal-relationship
    1
  • ↳onA Skeptic Desperately Blind for HopebySSomeOneWithOddTastes
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    SomeOneWithOddTastes·...

    Thanks, much appreciated.  -_-

    I'm doing the best I can. Just trying to keep focused on ANY small step in the right direction. 

    I'm hoping to get myself to see a therapist within the next month.

    mental-health
    personal-reflection
    self-care
  • ↳on3 years ago, aNDE changed the way I see the world and the people in it.  I became less focused on what people think of me, and more focused on what u think of the people I surround myself with.  I made a promise to myself...."When you have a choice, always choose kindness.....even to yourself."  Now? I live that promise daily.bySShalara
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    Karizzma·...
    absolutely! I also taught mine that in the end you can only be loyal to one person and that person better be yourself if you want to sleep at night. I've had a lot of sleepless nights and the longest ones are always the ones that keep you awake because of something you did that...
    decision-making
    personal-reflection
    self-care
  • ↳onAs a 57, yo woman, I am amazed at how menopause has affected my cognitive functioning! I really believe there needs to be broader discussion on women's health and the changes in our brains as we get older. Sometimes I feel like a stranger in my own body!by
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    Jade LazlowinAging Not So Gracefully·...

    I hear you. It’s a challenging time for concentrating and thinking. I think it’s also impacted by our busy lives. Take care of yourself. :)

    mental-health
    self-care
    empathy
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    UpTrust AdminSA·...

    The Open Question May 6: What keeps you sane?

    Hey y'all, The week alone: Iran "ceasefire"? (and gas at $4.46), Pope and Trump at odds, AI doomers and accelerationists, is equity racism?... sometimes it feels like the the heartache is too great....
    mental-health
    personal-reflection
    self-care
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  • sooyounglee369 avatar
    sooyounglee369·...

    Before Sleep, Resolve Your Inner and Outer Conflicts

    Before going to sleep, repair your conflicts with others + with yourself.   Before putting your child to sleep, hold their hand + tell them how you witnessed their light, courage +kindness....
    parenting
    self-care
    sleep-patterns
  • ↳onTimes like thesebyLLynn
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    Alfiealfie·...
    Hey you are a human. Your feelings are what anyone paying attention is feeling. You’re important. Depression is not the same as sadness and will impact your sleep your appetite and physical well being....
    mental-health
    self-care
    therapy
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    Drjo·...

    Question

    When you slow down and listen inwardly, what does your body want you to know right now?

    psychology
    mindfulness
    self-care

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